Release

You know how it is when you reach a point in your relationship where you are about to have your first fight - the strain that you feel but cannot verbalise, the silence that tends to grow longer in duration etc. I reached that point early this week, and the obvious obviously happened. Yes, I lost it. My patience I mean. :) And I actually just left the other party waiting and calling (and calling and calling). It felt good, because I was trying so hard before this to work things out and to not let that happen. Well, it wasn't really a fight. We just didn't speak for 8 hours. And I couldn't keep it any longer than that.

Ahh... the first silent fight. :)

Wow factor

A friend called yesterday. One who has not been in touch forever it seems. Which was a pleasant surprise. Another surprise was in store. I am not sure if it was pleasant. He was calling to ask for my address to mail an invitation to his union. With his newly-found boyfriend. Two parties are being planned. One in Johor. Another in London. The boyfriend is half-English half-Malay and resides in London. Hence the London party. Wow. Not a wow for the London party. Rather, it's a wow for the fact that he just broke up with his previous boyfriend late last December. And now he is getting married, with a formal registration and all (in London obviously). That's just hardly a month ago! Wow.